January 12, 2024
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The New Tech Landscape: How Remote Work is Rebalancing Opportunity

Remote work is reshaping tech by expanding access and opportunity—especially for working moms. It enables flexibility, boosts female leadership, and improves work-life balance. While isolation and blurred boundaries are challenges, a trust-based culture and intentional routines help remote teams thrive.

As a working mom in tech, I’ve juggled deadlines, diaper changes, and daycare pickups - sometimes in the same hour. The shift to remote work, accelerated by the pandemic and now a permanent norm in many industries, has been a game-changer. It's not just about the zoom calls or flexible hours; it's about redefining opportunity for those of us who have been underrepresented or limited by geography, caregiving, or rigid workplace norms. Remote work has cracked open the doors for working moms like me, allowing us to pursue ambitious careers while being present for our families.

A quick note before diving in: We know different circumstances come with different variables. My goal is to empower others to share their experiences and be confident engaging in the workplace.

Remote work has dismantled barriers that once seemed insurmountable. No more grueling commutes or rigid 9-to-5 schedules that conflict with school drop offs or sick days. For working moms, this means showing up for family moments - whether it's a class party or soothing a fever - without sacrificing productivity or ambition. The stigma of being a visible parent is beginning to fade. I have taken calls with a newborn napping on me, responded to emails while grabbing treats for a school event. It's not a distraction- it’s life, and it's ok to show it. 

Verbal communication has evolved as well. Meetings are more focused, often recorded for transparency, and enhanced by tools like zoom and slack. This shift promotes inclusivity, ensuring everyone - regardless of time zone or availability - has a voice. As a mom, I appreciate the ability to catch up on a recorded meeting after bedtime or align my notes with meeting takeaways before our family morning routine begins. Gone are the days of hallway chats or desk drop-by's. Remote teams must be intentional about communication, and that's a good thing. Written communication, real-time updates, and messaging platforms have become essential to the workday. It’s made me more concise and deliberate, skills that spill into caregiving too. 

To make the most of remote work, companies must foster trust-based culture, not surveillance on the green ‘online’ status or micromanagement. The majority of remote work has shifted success from “who stays in the office longest” to “who delivers results”. That’s a lifeline for working moms who may not fit traditional corporate molds. Whether we relocate for a partner’s job, choose quieter towns with better schools, or live far away from tech hubs, we now have options. High performers- regardless of zip code or caregiver status - get a fair shot at thriving. Remote leadership also rewards authenticity, empathy, and emotional intelligence - skills caregivers sharpen daily. Leading with heart, whether it’s managing a team or tantrum, is now seen as a strength, not a soft skill. 

The shift toward more flexible, remote-first work models hasn’t just changed how we work—it’s reshaped who gets to lead. The removal of geographic and in-person constraints has opened doors for women, especially working mothers and caregivers, to take on roles that may have previously felt out of reach. These changes are not only expanding access but also accelerating progress up the ladder. For instance, the representation of women in the workforce has changed dramatically: 

  • Remote-first workplaces boost women in leadership

    U.S. data shows women's labor force participation rose from 70% in 2020 to 73% by late 2023a, with hybrid/remote options playing a significant role in this resurgence—particularly in higher-income positions

  • Women in C-suite roles nearly doubled (2015–2024)

    Women now make up 29% of C-suite positionsb, compared to just 17% in 2015 - a reflection of the broader culture shifts and inclusivity efforts in recent years.

  • Progress up the pipeline (entry-level to VP)

    Female representation has improved at nearly every level: from 45% of entry-level roles in 2015 to 48% in 2024, manager roles from 37% to 39%, senior director levels from 32% to 37%, and vice president roles from 27% to 34%b


The Isolation tradeoff 

Of course, remote work isn’t the perfect cure-all solution. It can be lonely. The buzz of an office, the quick side conversations, even shared lunches or coffee breaks - they are not easily replaced by emoji reactions or slack threads. Many other remote workers have expressed the feeling of absence of spontaneous connection. And I’ve definitely felt it too.

What’s more is that  the lines between work and home often blur. The feeling that you need to compensate or playing “catch up” in the evening or before the house wakes can quickly be all consuming making it feel like you never really stop working. This can be a slippery slope and can have its consequences/trade-offs in other areas of your life if sustained. Thriving in this environment takes discipline and a strong support system, both personally and professionally. As working moms/caregivers, we need to be intentional about disconnection too. Below are a few things that have made a big difference for me:

  1. Take the lunch break.

    I used to power through lunch, thinking I was gaining time. But in reality that “extra hour” just filled with sync requests. Now, I block off time to eat, reset, pump (shout-out to all the nursing moms out there), or just breathe.
  2. Keep your laptop in one spot.

    Bringing it to the playroom or patio sounds flexible, but blurs boundaries fast! A dedicated workspace - even if it’s just a desk or table - helps separate work from everything else.
  3. End your day with intention.

    I block off 15 minutes to jot down tomorrow’s to-dos or scan the fridge before daycare dash. This short pause keeps me sane and feeling prepared to step into my afterwork role with confidence.

Don’t Take My Word for It

Removing location constraints significantly enlarges and diversifies the candidate pool, while hybrid and remote settings boost retention, happiness, and loyalty—all without sacrificing productivity or career growth. And there is real evidence to support:

  • Bigger more diverse talent pools

    When companies remove location requirements, they see up to 60% more high-quality candidatesc, and greater representation from women and underrepresented minorities. Remote roles attract people with slightly more experience, and a broader range of backgrounds.d
  • Higher retention, especially for caregivers

    Hybrid work arrangements have shown to reduce quit rates by a thirde , especially for working parents, long commuters, and women - without hurting productivity or promotion opportunities.
  • Better work-life balance = happier teams

    Around 82% of remote workersf report higher job satisfaction, and three out of fourg say their work-life balance has significantly improved compared to in-office work.

All this to say: the shift we’re seeing isn’t just a feel-good narrative—it’s backed by the numbers.

Conclusion: Remote Work is a Powerful Equalizer

Remote work isn’t just a perk - it's a profound shift. It's not about working less but working differently: with more autonomy, intention, and humanity. For working moms, it’s a chance to redefine success on our terms. However, this shift only works if we do it thoughtfully. Companies need to build cultures rooted in trust, not constant pings or “green dot” surveillance. That includes setting realistic expectations around availability - acknowledging that not everyone can (or should) be online at all hours and advocating for remote policies that are inclusive, not just flexible on paper. Let's make space for life, not just productivity. Visibility matters. And this is my story.

How has remote work changed your balance as a mom, partner, leader, or teammate? Let's keep the conversation going!

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Citations: 

a Allie Kelly, “Hybrid Jobs Are Bringing Women Back to the Labor Force”, Business Insider, published March 10, 2024

McKinsey & Company & LeanIn.org, Women in the Workplace 2023

https://www.mckinsey.com/featured-insights/diversity-and-inclusion/women-in-the-workplace 

c Marco Polo Business, “Remote Work by the Numbers: Statistics and Trends”

https://www.marcopolo.me/business/resources/remote-work/by-the-numbers-remote-work-statistics-and-trends 

d Wharton Research, “Remote Work and Diversity: New Evidence from Tech Hiring”

https://faculty.wharton.upenn.edu/wp-content/uploads/2016/11/Remote-Work.pdf 

e Nature, “Hybrid work increases retention without harming performance”

https://www.nature.com/articles/s41586-024-07500-2

f Forbes, “What Drives Satisfaction and Retention in the Workplace?”

https://www.forbes.com/sites/tracybrower/2025/01/13/what-drives-satisfaction-and-retention-in-the-workplace

g Breeze, “The Most Important Remote Work Statistics”

https://www.breeze.pm/blog/remote-work-statistics

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